You can either end up at 65+ year old woman, never married, no kids, but a beautiful empty house, and you had a successful career working for a company.
Or, you can be a wife, have kids, raise a family, home school your kids, and at 65+ years old you have a husband, you have adult kids, and grand kids.
The never-married woman would have the benefits of being as selfish as she wants; not caring about the men she is with; riding the CC; traveling the world; getting plastic surgery to continue attracting men. In the end, at 65+, after retiring, she has no one besides random men she may attract and seduce. But all the relationships end the same as they always have, she gets fed up and the guy moves on.
The woman who strived for marriage, has a husband, spent years raising and home schooling her own kids, not sending them to government institutions for most of the day. She raises them for 18+ years, and has benefited the community by transferring her values to her children. She's 65+ with grand kids, a husband, memories of raising her kids, and her husband.
As you can see, these two lives are complete opposites, one can be seen as selfish, and the other can be seen as selfless.
Many women will try evade choosing one, which indicates she will not be fully dedicated to her family. As you can see, the two are like night and day. There is a colossal difference between the two.
In the book High Value Woman and Low Value Woman, and in real life, the two are polar opposites. And as you can see, one can be described as up, daylight, one, right; the other can be described as down, night, zero, left.
Regardless of which one you attribute as being right or left, up or down, you must admit that they are complete opposites.
So, the question is, which woman out of the two (there are no alternatives) would you choose to be?
E. D. Collier